Monday, March 9, 2009

Juicy Confessions Response: Tired Az Hell

For everyone who doesn’t know that I have a Radio show on the student radio station 91.7fm WSUM. I am a radio personality by the name of Juicy Dre, and my show is The Juice Box a mix of Sultry Cococure tunes, with juicy relationship advice. On my facebook profile I have the Honesty Box application where people can anonymously submit Juicy Confessions or ask for advice. Sometimes I will air the Confessions live on the show, and sometimes I reply with my honest opinion about their issues.

Juicy Confession Response of the Week:

Dear Juicy Dre,

I have a confession to make. I like this boy and I haven’t told him, but he should know; besides that we are not in an exclusive relationship, but we have fooled around NO SEX yet though. The one thing that bothers me about him is that he messes with this other girl and probably many more. But me and her share a ton of mutual friends and she tells them about all the stuff she does with him, given I am not her friend; my friends are like he’s no good, but girl he is nasty and I like that…Anyway what should I do, I don’t wanna catch something or better more be played for a fool, since he is messing with a KNOWN HOE, everybody knows she is trashy. I kind of think he is an idiot for messing with her, but I want him for myself. Do you think I need to keep checking on him or let him go?

Tired az hell!


Hello Tired Az Hell,

First off I have to say that your concern about your health should be number one. You should always know about your sexual partner no matter the fashion of the activity. Knowing is Power, it allows you to make sound decisions about your personal health. Now to address the question of should you keep pursuing him or let it go, I would say LET IT GO!!! Obviously he has too many options and you are one of them. I will have to say that it may be hard for you to go backwards in this situation, you know from freak buddy to girlfriend, because one he doesn’t know you really like him for boyfriend material and then you both have not set up any terms. By not setting terms to this whole excursion, you have allowed it to carry on to a point of uncomfortability and uncertainty in your partner. By not communicating your real intentions you may have lost this potential mate to a women of certainty and possible aggression, she may have laid out the terms of their situation and intern she is in and you are out. So I have two things to say, if you are not willing to out your feelings to this person then chalk this one up to a lose and count your blessing for those girls who talk to much and let you in on the goods before you got in too deep. Remember a hoe is gonna be a hoe regardless of what anyone thinks of her, you cannot and most likely will not alter her behavior, don’t worry about her, you could learn something from the aggression (forwardness) that many of them display. As a women who want more remember these words: Never allow yourself to become someone’s Option, if not a Priority ACCEPT NOTHING!

Juicy Dre

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