Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Flaws and All


You want to know something, it is an amazing thing when someone loves you for who you are and everything that you have to bring to the table. It is definitely 1:30AM and I am still sitting up in my room. I decided to hit up the blog because I have finally come to the realization that we are all out here looking for someone to love us and many of us don't love ourselves. We are not comfortable with ourselves, and yet we expect someone else to love us for everything that we are and especially for the things that we aren't.

It's a wonderful feeling to look in the mirror at everything that you are, and say God (or whatever power you worship) thank you.......thank you for allowing me to be here able bodied and knowledgeable enough to see me for me.

The hardest part is letting go of the things that you aren't and will never be and embrace the beautiful person that you are, and look forward to the wonderful person that you can become, if that's where you're looking to go. Many of us have no idea where we want to be in a couple of years which leads us to hate the person that we are now. By taking small steps to become a better you, one will find it a lot easier and extremely less overwhelming to transform into that wonderful creature that you see in that mirror.

Making sure to reflect the person that you are in the inside on the outside is hard, hell I feel like I'm trapped in a fat suit, but if I don't take the necessary measures how can I expect the world to see the beautiful butterfly that I see in the mirror daily! Exactly, it takes work.....we cannot and will not be happy with ourselves if we don't do the work to achieve and deserve our happiness. We cannot expect others to be happy with us if we can't forgive ourselves and move on. We have to learn to stop the search for external things to make us happy and realize we are all that we have been waiting for. No one can treat you better than yourself. You are amazingly wonder, beautiful, wild, sassy, interesting, and every other dynamic ways that you'd loved to be described.

So once you learned to please yourself, truly begin to love you, I'm telling you, you will be unstoppable. Take charge of your image, love yourself more, and that love that you're searching for will fall into your lap.

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