Don't Save Her, She Don't Wanna Be Saved

OK, so it is like 1:30am and I am still sitting in the library writing a paper that should have already been finished. When I was on the Facebook, you know that devil, just shooting the breeze checking what new in the world of updates. When I stumbled across a picture of this guy that I used to dig. Long story short. This fool is dating a girl that cheated on him multiple times, but he still believes that he can save her. I don't understand that. You cannot turn a whore into a housewife, not saying that she is a whore, but if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quakes like a duck, WELLLLLLLL it's a DUCK!

This is an issue that is so prevalent in college. It's funny that when you are in a relationship you are blinded to the world of relationships that surround you, until you are back out on easy street single as hell, doing you. I feel that so many people in college are not really ready to be in a relationship with someone else, and are too selfish to realize that in themselves. Sometimes I just wanna scream grow the hell up!!!!, and get over yourself. If you are not comfortable with yourself then you damn sure can't make someone else happy. People are always searching for someone else to complete them, when they really should be looking in a mirror to self reflect and see what they need to work on to better themselves. How in the world do you expect someone else to be completely satisfied with you when you don't even like being alone with yourself. This is a perfect indicator if you are ready to share yourself with someone else, but until you can acknowledge that one aspect then you have a ways to go.

I just can't understand why these men keep trying to save these girls, these bitches don't want to be your girlfriends. What they want is someone to spend money on them and go about their business after they have walked all over your naive asses, and took you for a ride. Come on, men are always asking why do nice guys finish last.........you know why cause y'all stupid. You get what you deserve. If you would stop trying to change people then you wouldn't find yourself down and out. A word to the wise, stop and check the girl that you have been with or even pursuing and if you find that you have been giving more than 50% to that relationship/friendship, whatever it may be then take a step back from that and see if they will step they game up. If they don't then they were never studding you, they were probably just shooting the breeze with you to pass the time, until they lucked up on the one that they really wanted.

So I'll impart some wise words unto you from my man Project Pat,"Don't Save Her, She Don't Wanna Be Saved!".